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December 15, 2022 2 Comments

Procrastinator-in-Chief: The Not Now Self

Procrastinator-in-Chief: Is this your approach?

Do you feel like you are the Procrastinator-in-Chief? I am. I’ve taken on a different view of this tendency to put things off, but it requires some explanation. There are times it is just flat-out procrastination, but sometimes it is something else, which we attribute to procrastination.

Perfectionist vs Procrastinator

Do not confuse procrastination with with perfectionism, although it is often an element of procrastination.  Perfectionism stems from a need to do things perfectly, usually for reasons that can get in the way of doing it at all. If you think you are a perfectionist, you may like to look at this article. I am a recovered perfectionist, so I have tendencies, but really, I just don’t have the energy any more to expect myself to be perfect.  It is so, so, so hard.

Procrastination is the hallmark of those who, in the face of a difficult task, will choose to do almost anything that requires less effort than it will take to do the dreaded task. A procrastinator intends to do the task, later. A perfectionist is tackling the task, but not getting results that meet their own personal standards or requirements, so they cannot bring their work to a satisfactory close. The result can be the same.

Who is the Procrastinator?

As a college-level teacher I found about 25% of students were perfectionists, 25% were diligent workers, and 50% of my students were procrastinators.

Mary Jane Escobar with her students in Montisi, Italy.
Mary Jane Escobar teaching her students in Montisi Italy. They knitted in front of the Knitting Lady in a mural in the piazza. Taken in 2010

Diligent workers,

The diligent worker is what we should all strive to be. They would just slug away, putting in the time and effort, even if they didn’t always get the results. Their constant work would end up yielding great things. It can be a bit like sculpting from stone.

Perfectionists

Perfectionism is not a good thing; these students sabotaged themselves and failed to complete things at all. The perfectionists and I would often end up out in the hallway, with them in tears telling me why they couldn’t move forward because their work sucked. Most of them were doing A-level work. There were times I sent them to counseling, but often, as we faced a deadline, I explained to them the value of good-enough. I knew they didn’t believe me, but it would sometimes get them moving. That, and my assurance that I would love to see them again the next quarter, because I would flunk them if their search for perfection left them with nothing to turn in.

Procrastinators

They wanted to do the work, they could just never find the time, or were doing it at the last possible moment. They tended not to have a plan. Procrastinators always had good intentions, but usually had a hard time prioritizing their work. This failure to prioritize often seemed to stem from uncertainty and I could usually tell when it was a process issue or a real procrastination problem. Most of us have process issues. There were times when all I had to do was to make a list for them, make them sit down and prioritize, and they could do the work.  Those who could be forced into making a plan were much more likely to fall towards being diligent. I have to do this, and sometimes even get help because I can’t see my way out.

Being a student teaches us to procrastinate. Students are fighting a learning curve, externally imposed deadlines, and usually too many things to distract (socializing, families, jobs, other classes). Add social media to that and you have a recipe for disaster.  Sadly, it is the recipe most students now cook with; the Technology that distracts us the most is the thing that we need to do our work.

Procrastinator-in-chief: they ways I prove my laziness
I take photos, then leave the set up at an unused end of our dining room table

Procrastinator Hacks

I do not want to have anyone think that I am not a procrastinator. If I don’t want to do something, I have an untold number of things that I can and will do instead. Mostly, not procrastinating ends up being mind over my own basic impulse to avoid difficult things, whether it is writing a blog post, a book, or making a phone call. They are equally huge hurdles if you don’t feel like doing them!

I find that when I am not doing something I want to do or want to get done, it is because I just don’t have enough information or clarity. If there is “pre-work” or thinking, and I cannot do anything until I am ready. I am kind of a brat.

These are my solutions, all of which have to be knowingly employed:

  1. Schedule it on my calendar.
  2. Make completion of a task a prerequisite to something I want to do.
  3. Make it a game to see how quickly I can get through it and on to something else.
  4. Just say no.
  5. Break it down. I can’t get anything done if I think of the whole thing, but if I pick it apart I can tackle pieces.
  6. Batch work so I can get a ton of things done, leaving time for thinking.
  7. Exercise to clear my head.
  8. Do some research. Be very clear on what to research.
  9. Set a timer.  It totally works.
  10. Make it a routine.

Procrastination Suggestions

These are other things I do which you may find more difficult:

  • I spend limited time on social media.
  • I am very careful about what I agree to do for others.
  • I try to stick to my calendar–I can shift things around, but I have to do the planned work by the end of the week.
  • I participate in two groups in which members support each other in accomplishing goals.
  • I keep a list of what I am trying to get done in any week.
Procrastinator-in-chief: they ways I prove my laziness
Swatching, my favorite thing! My charts are Action charts where you do what you see, not what you need to do to make it look right on the right side. This makes knitting easier for me.

I have no idea why it is so burdensome to wash my reading glasses. When I don’t feel like doing it I will wear dirty ones rather than take the less than two minutes to do it.

I had to remove a couple of suggestions from the above list because I have not been doing them. I am regrouping (aren’t I always) to try to enter the new year with better planning.

In full disclosure: This blog post was written while I procrastinated on another project: True in the original post. True Now.

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  1. Veronica says

    May 10, 2017 at 7:34 pm

    So me but I can see all of these procrastinations in me

    Reply
    • Jill says

      May 11, 2017 at 1:47 pm

      Well I had no trouble writing this!

      Reply

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